Be Understanding and Caring

Step 21:

In relationships we all make mistakes and sometimes we are insensitive to the needs of others, especially those very close to us. All this leads to disappointment and resentment. The answer to handling disappointment is understanding. Relationships don't come about because people are perfect. They come about because of understanding. 

There is more gratification in being a caring person than in just being a nice person. A caring attitude builds goodwill which is the best kind of insurance that a person can have and it doesn't cost a thing.

 Some people substitute money for caring and understanding. Being understanding is far more important than money and the best way to be understood is to be understanding. And the basis of real communication is also to be understanding.

 Practice Generosity 

It is a sign of emotional maturity. Being generous is being thoughtful and considerate without being asked. Generous people experience the richness of life which a selfish person cannot even dream of. Be considerate; selfishness brings its own revenge. Be sensitive to other people's feelings.

 Be Tactful 

Tact is very important in any relationship. Tact is the ability to make a point without alienating the other person. 

Kindness

 Money will buy a great dog but only kindness will make him wag h tail. It is never too is soon for kindness because we don't know how soon is too late. 

Kindness is a language the deaf can hear and the blind can see. It is better to treat a friend with kindness while he is living than display flowers on his grave when he is dead. 

An act of kindness makes a person feel good regardless of whether he is doing it or it is done to him. Kind words never hurt the tongue.