A young couple used to leave their daughter at a day-care center
every day before going to work. As they parted company, the parents and child
kissed each other's hands and then put the kisses in their pockets. All during
the day when the little girl got lonely she would take out a kiss and put it on
her cheek. This little routine made them feel together even though they were
physically apart. What a wonderful thought.
What Makes a Child a Delinquent?
Teach him to put a price tag
on everything and he will put his integrity for sale.
Teach him never to take a stand and then he
will fall for anything.
Make him believe that
winning is not everything.
It is the only thing and he will make every
effort to win by hook or by crook. Give a child everything he wants right from
infancy and he will grow up believing that the world owes him a living and
everything will be handed to him on a platter. When he picks up bad language,
laugh at him. This will make him think he is cute. Don't ever give him any
moral or ethical values. Wait until he is 21 and let him "determine his
own." Give him choices without direction. Never teach him that every
choice has a consequence. Never tell him he is wrong, he might develop a
complex. This will condition him to believe that society is against him when he
gets arrested for doing something wrong. Always pick up things that he leaves
lying around--books, shoes, clothes, etc. Do everything for him so that he will
learn to push all responsibilities onto others. Let him read, watch and hear
anything he wants. Be careful what he feeds his body, but let his mind feed on
garbage. In order to be popular with his peers, he must go along to get along.
Quarrel frequently when he is present. This way he won't be surprised when
things fall apart at home. Give him as much money as
he wants.
Never teach him respect for or the value of money. Make sure he does
not have things as tough as you did. Provide instant gratification for all
sensual desires such as food, drink, comfort. Deprivation can cause
frustration. Side with him against neighbors, teachers, etc., as they are
prejudiced against him. When he gets into real trouble, excuse yourself by
saying, "I tried my best but could never do anything with him." Don't
put your foot down because you believe discipline takes away freedom. Prefer
remote control to parental control in order to teach independence. What
children get, they give to society.
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