Monday 21 October 2013

STEPS TO BUILDING A POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM

Learn to Give and Receive Compliments 
Don't miss out on any opportunity to give sincere compliments. Remember, the key word is sincerity. When others give you a compliment, accept it graciously and gracefully with two words, "Thank you." That is a sign of humility.
 Accept Responsibility
 We need to accept responsibility for our behavior and our actions and insulate ourselves from excuses. Don't be like the student who failed just because he didn't like the teacher or the subject. Who is he hurting the most? We have to accept responsibility and stop blaming others, then, and only then, will productivity and quality of life improve. 
Our privileges can be no greater than our obligations. The protection of our rights can endure no longer than the performance of our responsibilities. -John F. Kennedy
 Excuses make the problem worse than the problem itself.
 We owe responsibility 
  • to self
  •  to family
  •  to work
  •  to society 
  • to the environment


 We can add to the greenery by planting trees, stopping soil erosion, preserving natural beauty.
 We cannot live as if we have another earth we can move to. On a daily basis, we need to do something that makes this world a better place to live. We are custodians for the future generations. If we do not behave responsibly, how can future generations forgive us?

 If the average life expectancy of a person is 75 years and if you are 40 years old, you have 365 days x 35 years, to live. Ask yourself this question: What are you going to do with this time? When we accept or add responsibility, we make ourselves more valuable. Don't we? 

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